“I had known Steve De Maio for almost thirty years! He and I used to joke that he was my “second father” (Licia Albanese was my “Mamma” and Karl Michaelis was my “uncle”)! What he did for me (and also for many other singers) during that time cannot be put in words here, because these would consume far more than the available space! And there is no real need for it, as most people that will be reading this know everything that I would be writing!
Everyone here knows what kind of person he was, and how important his work had been.Therefore, I will just mention a few things that I, personally, strongly associate with him: Steve worked really hard, and he was always busy and in a hurry! He loved bread, and he was very “strict” with the things that he ordered at a restaurant: The basic requirement being that (besides the indispensable bread) whatever else he ate had to have a lot of tomato sauce!
We had countless meals together, but, with the exception of one single beef dish that both of us used to order regularly at a French-Japanese restaurant near his place, I almost only remember him eating “Pasta Marinara” (Ital. “al sugo”) or “Veal Piccata”! Both dishes were, of course, always ordered with a big extra portion of tomato sauce on the side!! (The “original” Veal Piccata recipe actually does not have tomato sauce at all... But, if he found one of those, Steve would always order the sauce separately!)With time, all the restaurants where he used to go knew that “his” Veal Piccata had to have tomato sauce, and they served it to him just like that! And when, a few times, I orderer the same dish, but mine came without the tomato sauce, Steve always complained in my name!! The first time it happened, Steve was very surprised and a bit disappointed, when I told the waiter that I didn’t need the extra sauce... He ended up sharing his extra portion sauce with me!.... So was Steve: He “knew what was best”, and he insisted that all of us also got “the best”!(To this day, every time I see some food with lots of tomato sauce, I immediately think of Steve!)
Through him I got to know many wonderful people, I learned a lot, and I had a number of experiences that have made my life “extraordinary”! If a life should be measured by the way it impacts the lives of other people, then, considering just me, Steve’s life achieved total plenitude. And I was, by far, not the only one! Now that we all mourn his passing, we miss him and we suffer with the heavy loss, I wish that he might (finally) get his deserved rest, and that he might find peace and calm, in the realm of Eternal Light.And, above all, I hope that Heaven is a place where one can get plenty of tomato sauce!”
RICARDO TAMURA